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FOMO, Overconsumption, and Board Games that Don’t Get Played
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“Play What You Have”: Finding Balance and Joy in Board Gaming
In the world of board gaming, where new releases and exciting titles constantly tempt us, it’s easy to fall into the trap of overconsumption and the fear of missing out (FOMO). The shelves of board game enthusiasts are often filled with untouched treasures, even as the desire to buy the next big thing grows stronger within us. In this article, we’ll explore the philosophy of “Play What You Have” and its benefits, recognize the negative impact of FOMO and overconsumption, and outline strategies for finding balance and maximizing enjoyment in your board gaming hobby.
The Power of “Play What You Have”:
The premise of “Play What You Have” encourages board gamers to appreciate and fully enjoy the games they already own. Many enthusiasts amass impressive collections yet find themselves neglecting older titles. For example, games like On Mars and Spirit Island might sit on the shelf, waiting for their turn, while newer releases capture attention (however brief). By embracing “Play What You Have,” you can rediscover the hidden gems on your shelves and create meaningful experiences with these games.
Recognizing the Adverse Effects of FOMO and Overconsumption:
FOMO, the fear of missing out, often drives board gamers to constantly acquire new games, leading to a cycle of overconsumption. However, this behavior can have adverse effects on both your hobby and your overall well-being. Financial strain, overwhelming choices, and a lack of appreciation for games like Etherfields and Tapestry that sit unplayed are just a few of the pitfalls associated with FOMO and overconsumption.
Finding Balance and Maximizing Enjoyment:
a. Assessing Your Collection: Take inventory of your board game collection and evaluate the games that have been neglected. Consider games like Voyages or One Card Dungeon that have been waiting patiently for their turn. Reflect on their themes, mechanics, and the initial reasons you purchased them. Reignite your excitement for these games by reminding yourself of their unique qualities and potential for enjoyment.
b. Creating a Play Plan: Develop a structured plan to prioritize playing the games you already own. Set aside dedicated game nights, involve friends and family, and make a conscious effort to explore different games from your collection. By actively investing time in these games, you’ll deepen your appreciation for them and foster a sense of accomplishment.
c. Mindful Purchasing: Instead of succumbing to impulsive buying habits, establish guidelines for acquiring new games. For instance, implement a “sell two, buy one” rule, where you sell or trade existing games before purchasing a new one. This approach not only helps you declutter your collection but also encourages thoughtful decision-making and reduces the accumulation of unplayed games.
d. Engaging with the Community: Join online communities and local gaming groups or attend board gaming conventions to connect with fellow enthusiasts who share similar values. By engaging with others who embrace the “Play What You Have” philosophy, you’ll find support, inspiration, and a sense of camaraderie that reinforces your commitment to enjoying your existing collection.
Conclusion:
Board gaming is a vibrant and ever-evolving hobby, but it’s important to strike a balance between acquiring new games and appreciating the ones you already own. By embracing the “Play What You Have” mindset, recognizing the negative effects of FOMO and overconsumption, and implementing a thoughtful approach to gaming, you can unlock the true joy and fulfillment that board gaming has to offer. So, dust off those unplayed gems, gather your friends and family and embark on a journey of rediscovery and connection through the games you already love.
What say you? Do you have any ideas to share about dealing with FOMO and playing what you have? Leave a comment below.
-BoardGameNerd